Let’s face it — not everyone will like us, and that’s okay.
I remember a time when someone straight-up told me, “I don’t like you.” For a second, it stung. I’d be lying if I said it didn’t. But instead of reacting with anger, sarcasm, or hurt, I took a deep breath and responded with calm honesty.
Here’s exactly what I said:
“That’s alright. We don’t have to like everyone, but I do hope we can still treat each other with respect.”
Why? Because their opinion of me doesn’t define my worth.
Over the years, I’ve learned a few things:
- Not everyone will vibe with your energy, and that’s not your fault.
- Some people judge based on a single moment, without knowing your whole story.
- You gain nothing by fighting for approval from someone who’s already made up their mind.
When someone tells me they don’t like me, I try to reflect:
- Is this about me?
- Or is this more about where they’re coming from — their mindset, their assumptions, or something they’re going through?
If I’ve done something wrong, I’ll own it. But if someone simply doesn’t like me for being myself, I won’t shrink to fit their mold.
At the end of the day, I want to be surrounded by people who like me for me — not because I bent over backwards to be liked.
So if you ever find yourself in that situation, here’s my advice:
Stay calm. Stay kind. Stay grounded. Your worth isn’t up for debate — especially not from someone who can’t see it.